The Top 10 Distinctions Between Winners and Whiners

Preface.A Note on the Order of the Distinctions.Distinction 10.Winners take responsibility.Whiners play the victim.Distinction 9.Winners can have what they want.Whiners want what they cannot have.Distinction 8.Winners find a way.Whiners find an excuse.Distinction 7.Winners brighten a room by entering.Whiners brighten a room by leaving.Distinction 6.Winners listen twice as much as they talk.Whiners talk twice as much as they listen.Distinction 5.Winners enjoy life's journeys.Whiners put their joy in the destinations.Distinction 4.Winners build friendships.Whiners destroy friendships.Distinction 3.Winners think big.Whiners think small.Distinction 2.Winners are focus-minded.Whiners are scatterbrained.Distinction 1.Winners create positive meanings.Whiners create negative meanings.What Now?